wrote:
>
>Dav wrote:
>> On 8 Apr 2006 15:12:22 -0700, "John Kuthe" <johnkuthe@earthlink.net>
>> wrote:
>>
>> >Oh man! I've GOT to get in on this discussion!!
>> >
>> >I had me one of those 14YO cuties once, for almost 10 years! IOW I
>> >married her! Of course, I was 19 when we began seeing each other too. A
>> >pretty far age gap, but believe me, I LOVED it!!! Sure I knew I was
>> >playing a dual role with her of daddy *and* boyfriend, but I tried to
>> >play down the daddy role if I could.
>>
>> Dude, you were PLAYING WITH FIRE there. In the UK, at least (I don't
>> know about the law in your little banana republic):
>>
>> man over 18 + sex with girl under 16 + complaint when things go wrong
>> = jail + anal sex in showers + your name on sex offenders' register
>
>That's the case here too, nonetheless they did stay together for about
>ten years, and no one raised a fuss.
Yeah, I wasn't criticizing John for it (it's not like he was a
40-year-old guy shagging an underage girl). I'm just saying that it's
fucking risky - there have been loads of cases of a relationship
ending badly, followed by the girl (or her parents) vindictively
reporting the guy to the pollis who then step in with their size-12
jackboots.
I wouldn't personally take the chance - there is no way that I'm ever
going to let myself be caught in the "she said (and looked like) she
was 16, officer" trap either - if it looks like there's a chance that
she might not be, I steer well clear...
>>
>> >Sure she needed some daddying,
>> >shit, her father was an alcoholic in the final stages before either
>> >sobering up or dying! So as far as her 'maturity', yeah, she kinda had
>> >to be mature, yano? Coming from a totally dysfunctional family makes a
>> >boy or girl grow up pretty fast!
>>
>> Or turns them into carbon copies of their fucked-up parents. One or
>> the other...
>
>I really do think she benefitted from the relationship with John. I
>got to be pretty good friends with her too. We used to drink a lot of
>rum and Coke.
White or dark?
>>
>> >Problem was, she was not sure who she wanted to be when we met. I knew
>> >damned well who *I* was, which she thought was cool, plus I treated her
>> >really nicely, so she glommed onto me right away and tenaciously like a
>> >leach too! (Which at the time I though was the greatedt fucking thing
>> >in the world!)
>>
>> MILFs tend to do the same. Show 'em a bit of interest, make 'em feel
>> sexy for the first time in years and they're all over you like a rash.
>> The differences are that 40+ year-old women usually give better head
>> and are much less high-maintenance.
>
>I imagine you're correct on both points.
Only problem with MILFs is the 'whole long term relationship' thing. I
mean, as a 25-year-old now, I'd happily have sex with a 45-year-old
woman who kept herself in good nick (heh, I actually lost my virginity
to one - but that's another story) but would I be happy with fucking a
65-year-old when I'm 45? Na - I'd still be wanting to fuck 45-year-old
chicks... :)
>>
>> >The problem came when she finally did grow up and decided on who she
>> >wanted to be, a fucking straight person! And I was anything BUT a
>> >straight person! (Still am too!) So we split up after almost 10 years,
>> >many of which were pretty good but the last few of which were
>> >increasingly miserable for both of us.
>> >
>> >I got a LOT of very good sex and a wonderful son out of the deal
>> >though!! Lemme tell ya!
>>
>> Heh - I know that feeling. I bet she tried to change you too, didn't
>> she? Why do so many women think that they can do that?
>>
>John, PUT THE DATE ON YOUR CALENDAR. MAY 12, a friday night, at The
>Way Out Club, Jefferson @ Gravois. The Bonobos' first show since last
>summer.
How's the record coming along now, btw?
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