Dav wrote:
> On 8 Apr 2006 15:12:22 -0700, "John Kuthe" <johnkuthe@earthlink.net>
> wrote:
>
> >Oh man! I've GOT to get in on this discussion!!
> >
> >I had me one of those 14YO cuties once, for almost 10 years! IOW I
> >married her! Of course, I was 19 when we began seeing each other too. A
> >pretty far age gap, but believe me, I LOVED it!!! Sure I knew I was
> >playing a dual role with her of daddy *and* boyfriend, but I tried to
> >play down the daddy role if I could.
>
> Dude, you were PLAYING WITH FIRE there. In the UK, at least (I don't
> know about the law in your little banana republic):
>
> man over 18 + sex with girl under 16 + complaint when things go wrong
> = jail + anal sex in showers + your name on sex offenders' register
That's the case here too, nonetheless they did stay together for about
ten years, and no one raised a fuss.
>
> >Sure she needed some daddying,
> >shit, her father was an alcoholic in the final stages before either
> >sobering up or dying! So as far as her 'maturity', yeah, she kinda had
> >to be mature, yano? Coming from a totally dysfunctional family makes a
> >boy or girl grow up pretty fast!
>
> Or turns them into carbon copies of their fucked-up parents. One or
> the other...
I really do think she benefitted from the relationship with John. I
got to be pretty good friends with her too. We used to drink a lot of
rum and Coke.
>
> >Problem was, she was not sure who she wanted to be when we met. I knew
> >damned well who *I* was, which she thought was cool, plus I treated her
> >really nicely, so she glommed onto me right away and tenaciously like a
> >leach too! (Which at the time I though was the greatedt fucking thing
> >in the world!)
>
> MILFs tend to do the same. Show 'em a bit of interest, make 'em feel
> sexy for the first time in years and they're all over you like a rash.
> The differences are that 40+ year-old women usually give better head
> and are much less high-maintenance.
I imagine you're correct on both points.
>
> >The problem came when she finally did grow up and decided on who she
> >wanted to be, a fucking straight person! And I was anything BUT a
> >straight person! (Still am too!) So we split up after almost 10 years,
> >many of which were pretty good but the last few of which were
> >increasingly miserable for both of us.
> >
> >I got a LOT of very good sex and a wonderful son out of the deal
> >though!! Lemme tell ya!
>
> Heh - I know that feeling. I bet she tried to change you too, didn't
> she? Why do so many women think that they can do that?
>
John, PUT THE DATE ON YOUR CALENDAR. MAY 12, a friday night, at The
Way Out Club, Jefferson @ Gravois. The Bonobos' first show since last
summer.
--Bryan
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