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 | Path: news.nzbot.com!not-for-mail From: "la n." <nilita2002@yahoo.com>
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 "Ilya Shambat" <ishambat@hotmail.com> wrote in message
 news:6d8c5a02.0307262022.1f7c36b0@posting.google.com...
 > "Piorokrat" <piorokrat@autograf.pl> wrote in message
 news:<bftbl4$6ka$1@news.onet.pl>...
 >
 > > We are not obligated to forgive the trespasses of those who do not ask
 it,
 > > and God also is not obligated to do so either, but Christians are
 obliged to
 > > forgive those who say that they are sorry and there is at least the
 > > possibility they could be sincere.
 >
 > What about men who beat their wives and then say they're sorry and
 > once forgiven go back to doing the same thing? Is forgiving them the
 > best thing the women can do, or should they take a more proactive
 > approach?
 >
 
 Hi Ilya!  Hi Davey!   IMHO in the case you depicted above ... I believe
 it is "good" for a woman to forgive her husband (if she wants to "forgive"
 him)   and then move on .... out of the relationship.  That is, if the man
 is
 a repeat offender.  As is often the case.
 
 Again, IMHO, being "sorry" also means "making amends", changing one's
 behaviour if you will.  If not, expressing such "remorse" is just paying
 lip service.
 
 la n.
 
 
 
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