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From: NP-f31 <dudewiththe(REMOVE)hair@hushmail.com>
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Subject: Re: PING! Awake
Date: Thu, 21 Aug 2008 09:06:33 -0400
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On Thu, 21 Aug 2008 08:34:25 -0400, Awake <Awake@invalid.com> wrote:
>In article <1kroa4df8t9b94vvmv71g33psvstk19k2k@4ax.com>, NP-f31
><dudewiththe(REMOVE)hair@hushmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Hello Awake,
>>
>> I have been in contact with a boylover who has been seeking help in
>> connecting with a boy he knows. I helped him in making an initial
>> contact, but the more I hear from the BL, the more I suspect that his
>> motivation may easily move beyond the altruistic to more self
>> indulgent activities. The trouble is the guy I know is truly lonely.
>> The boy involved clearly seeks a man in his life. I have made my
>> position clear to my BL friend that the boys needs must always come
>> first. I fear in his desperation the guy may push too hard, and to be
>> honest he's already a bit of a target in the town where he lives.
>>
>> Do you have any suggestions on how I might reinforce the message that
>> the boy should come first, that self preservation should also come
>> first, and how he might find a way to fit his love for boys together
>> with a boy who needs him without endangering anyone and meeting
>> everyone's needs?
>>
>> Thank you for your help in advance.
>>
>> Doc
>> NP-f31
>
>I have no doubt you are perfectly capable of handling this issue on
>your own, but if you are unsure, 4s00th is the best choice for you to
>ask for help. He is very experienced in this issue from his work in
>asbl, and he can discuss this with you in private, which I cannot do.
>
>I'm Awake, and proper sleep eludes all of us at times.
I see, I wanted to get a fresh perspective. Outside-of-the-box
thinking, if you will. Well, thanks anyway.
Doc
NP-f31
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