On Thu, 21 Aug 2008 22:00:08 +0200 (CEST), Nomen Nescio
<nobody@dizum.com> wrote:
>On 20-Aug-2008, NP-f31 <dudewiththe(REMOVE)hair@hushmail.com> wrote:
>
>> Hello Awake,
>>
>> I have been in contact with a boylover who has been seeking help in
>> connecting with a boy he knows. I helped him in making an initial
>> contact, but the more I hear from the BL, the more I suspect that
>> his
>> motivation may easily move beyond the altruistic to more self
>> indulgent activities. The trouble is the guy I know is truly lonely.
>> The boy involved clearly seeks a man in his life. I have made my
>> position clear to my BL friend that the boys needs must always come
>> first. I fear in his desperation the guy may push too hard, and to
>> be
>> honest he's already a bit of a target in the town where he lives.
>>
>> Do you have any suggestions on how I might reinforce the message
>> that
>> the boy should come first, that self preservation should also come
>> first, and how he might find a way to fit his love for boys together
>> with a boy who needs him without endangering anyone and meeting
>> everyone's needs?
>>
>> Thank you for your help in advance.
>>
>> Doc
>> NP-f31
>
>Pathetic. No other word for it. Just pathetic.
>
Can YOU help?
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