On Wed, 20 Dec 2006 00:45:32 +0000 (UTC), Naughty Boy
<%+16$-Y-Not@here-and.there> wrote:
>Max Grrl <maxtheangel@gmail.com> wrote in news:191220061827263498%
>maxtheangel@gmail.com:
>
>> In article <170go2hh2f9f2i1q6c9gfej594us6uj4ud@4ax.com>, 4s00th
>> <4s00th@thetruth.com> wrote:
>>
>>> On Tue, 19 Dec 2006 02:23:06 -0600, trippy
>>> <silverbells@tacoshells.com> wrote:
>>>
>>> >> I'm not talking about the unfortunate souls who happen to lust for
>>> >> children from afar (though I think that's sick) . . .
>>>
>>> I take a certain exception to this comment. I did not ask to be a
>>> pedophile. In fact, no one asked me what I wanted to be. So how does
>>> that make me sick? Is it any different from someone who lusts for
>>> blonds? The sickness is being either unable or unwilling to control
>>> your behavior and not act on desires that you know should not be acted
>>> on.
>>
>> I can't agree with you on that . . . the attraction for children
>> demands that in order for the attraction to continue, they must STAY
>> children. What happens when they age? Reach their 30s? 40s? Are they
>> tossed aside?
Unfortunately, for many pedophiles that is exactly what happens. But
then, as you've noted, sexual predators aren't about love and sex,
they're about power and domination.
I can only tell you that I've never stopped loving a boy just because
he grew up into an adult. In fact, I was totally shocked with one
particular boy who I met as an adult, and when I hugged him, I still
felt a very strong attraction to him. I mean, I've never been turned
on by Old Spice before, but damn!
>> Unlike an attraction for blondes (which is actually too superficial to
>> really be considered anything more than a physical preference) . . .
>> the attraction to children is not merely a "preference" it's an
>> end-all-be-all qualification - a "state" if you will. You can dye
>> blonde hair, if necessary, but you can't stop the inevitability of
>> aging.
You're right, I chose a very superficial comparison. Help me find a
better one to compare it with. I mean, if we say "gay," well, there's
rampant prejudice and debate about that as well. In the end, all of
the sexual terms describe sexual attraction and sexual preference, and
almost no one is 100% one way or the other, most of us fall somewhere
in between.
>> So what is this "no longer a child" to do? You can't stop the aging
>> process. You can hide it with painful surgery . . . face lifts, tummy
>> tucks and Gawd knows what else . . . but that's not fair to do to
>> someone (though everyone knows that that sort of thing is rampant in
>> all spectrums of society, not just children "lovers" of pedos) . . .
>> but even then, will that kind of invasive surgery be enough????
>> Probably not, the pedo will continue to look for younger lovers to
>> replace his once young lover. And the "no longer a child" will be cast
>> aside.
But, as you point out, that's not a problem exclusive to pedophiles! I
mean, how many "normal" heterosexual men dump their wives or lovers
for younger versions?
Again, I can only speak for myself, but I've never stopped loving a
boy just because he grew up. I think that it can actually make the
relationship stronger -- but it may also destroy the attraction. And
to be honest, I've long despaired that I'd never find anyone because
it doesn't take that much to turn my head or touch my heart. If I met
a new boy each day, I could probably end up caring about 28 new boys a
month. And lusting after 30, but that's less important.
>Of course. Pedophile "love" is a one-way dead-end, yet the pedofreaks
>won't admit it.
>
>NB
I'm not sure I see it as a one-way dead-end, but I can't deny that
it's a fitting analogy.
4s00th
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