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From: "Plump Lvr" <plumplvr@hotmail.com>
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Subject: Re: ASL
Date: Fri, 25 Jul 2003 08:11:26 -0500
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If he refuses counseling, then you have to decide if it's worth it to
continue the relationship "as is". If so, then enjoy your masturbation as
you can. You might find the shower a good place to enjoy yourself.
If not, or if you are willing to risk the demise of the relationship, then
you can flat out inform him that either you go to counciling together or he
can pack his shit and get the hell out.
Prior to that, follow the advice that another poster suggested. Setup some
accounts (checking, possibly credit) in YOUR name alone. Have the statements
sent to your parents or other nearby relatives house, or a good friend. Or
get a post office box and use that address.
Your chances of getting kids, house, etc are near 100%, especially since at
this point you (presumably) have not had the affair. It wouldn't hurt
though, to see a good lawyer just to make sure you cya (cover your ass).
Hopefully, the serious threat of divorce will spur him to councilling and
change. If not, well it sounds like you are almost better off without the
asshole and can find some nice guy who will appreciate a sexy gal like you.
I went through a similar situation some years ago, wound up getting
divorced. I was hoping it would be a wake up call, and she did finally agree
to councilling. Unfortunately the first three or four sessions were "bash
the husband" sessions where she told the counciller what dog I was. I got
rather amused at the fifth session, I had one private meeting with the
coucillor alone. I was intending to give my side since I had not been really
able to without interruption. Before I could say anything the guy looks at
me and says "your wife needs serious help, probably more than I can give.
I'm frankly suprised you haven't strangled her yet. Get a divorce, it'll be
the best thing for both of you."
At the next session he began to talk about what was wrong with her. We were
not even out of the parking lot when she said "I don't like this guy, I
don't think he knows what he's talking about, let's find someone else." That
was our last session, and not long after that got the divorce.
I'm much happier now, found a lady who appreciates me and while her sex
drive is not up to mine, she will encourage me to masturbate in all sorts of
ways so I'll be happy!
Plump Lvr
PS Feel free to e-mail if you have other questions, you can just reply to
this.
"T E" <touchingearth2001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
news:bfnb1t$rr4$1@bn2.blue.net...
> Ugh.. they need to be married to each other. He refuses to go to a
counselor
> with me. He seems to think it is all in my mind that our sex life sucks..
> People really need to wake up and get a clue...
>
>
> "observer" <om2.1@netzero.net> wrote in message
> news:6e16060b.0307231152.617b509d@posting.google.com...
> > "T E" <touchingearth2001@yahoo.com> wrote in message
> news:<bfm51g$h8i$1@bn2.blue.net>...
> > > Well I am the 28 yr old female here.
> >
> > Amazing. Virtually identical to my story except the genders are
> > reversed. Her philosophy is there is one way and one way only to have
> > sex. Anything else is 'kid's stuff' Once every two months is about
> > right for her too. After 3 counselors and $4500 we are back where we
> > started.
>
>
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