My fiance is always masturbating, even in his sleep. He was taking an
anti depressant and had trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse so
if he could not reach an orgasm I would participate in his
masturbation. The odctor explained however that if he is able to
achieve orgasm through masturbation there is no reason he should not be
able to during intercourse. For about a month and a half he had no
trouble reaching orgasm through intercourse and it all began again the
other night. When he was done masturbating he said, "This is much
easier." He did not realize I heard and I got very upset and hurt. I
have found him masturbating next to me in bed while I am asleep. I
give this man plenty of sex. I think there is a much deeper problem
here. He has admitted to crossdressing when he was younger and he
actually considered a sex change. He also admitted that at one time he
thought he was gay, and had several sexual encounters with other males.
He does have feminine tendencies. He admitted that before I came
along he masturbated every night before going to sleep and sometimes
during the day. He also at one point went to sex anonymous. He said
they told him he was fine. Now, at night during his sleep he is
masturbating. At least he appears to be asleep and if you ask him he
has no recollection. Unless he is lying to me. I have been losing
sleep due to the noise and the jerking movements. I am considering not
marrying him because I am wondering if there is a deeper problem here.
I feel very inadequate. Can anyone offer feedback?
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