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From: Chad (NP-b24)
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Subject: Re: Friday Night Lights
Date: Sun, 11 Oct 2009 20:29:20 -0400
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On Fri, 09 Oct 2009 22:56:29 -0400, NP-f31
<dudewiththe(REMOVE)hair@hushmail.com> wrote:
>I just came back from a High School football game. My youngest son is
>in Middle School now and I took him to the game so he could hang out
>with his mates. So, I was on my own for much of the game. :/
>I only took marginal interest in the game, to me the real show was in
>and around the stands. I've thought about this before when my older
>son was in High School and I would go to see him play. High School
>football games are really sexually charged. It's true, all those
>pheromones get the kids stirred up; and watching as a boylover, I can
>see how the chemistry affects the atmosphere. There are all types of
>people at the game from grandparents and parents, to teachers and
>students and of course the little brothers and sisters. It's a great
>place to people watch and boy watch.
>
>The adults pretty much watch the game or talk to friends and the
>little baby siblings and toddler siblings play with toys in the
>bleachers. The administrators march back and forth policing the kids.
>But the kids I saw tonight are all really good kids. In some schools
>in this city there are killings at HS football games. Nothing like
>that here, these kids almost all come from privileged homes.
>
>Of course, the kids are completely tuned in to one another. They only
>watch the game when there is a big play. The students dominate the
>middle section of the bleachers, The upperclassmen stand in segregated
>groups. Popular guys stand in a group near the popular girls and there
>is much interaction, but it is unfocused. Teen couples tend to stay on
>the periphery and are intimately focused on one another, there is a
>lot of snuggling and hugging; and in the darker areas around the
>concession stand or in corners there is a little kissing going on. The
>close proximity of the groups tends to act as an aphrodisiac and a
>mass sexual energy is created that they all feed on. You can see it in
>their dilated pupils. They actually get a sexual high. I never saw
>this when I was in high school, I was on the field, but it was
>palpable tonight.
>
>Older middle school boys, like my son, are trying to act like the
>upperclassmen, they stand in groups near the older teens and they are
>tuned in and watching how the older teens interact. They vacillate
>between the urge to fit in with the cool older kids and being more
>playful and active like the younger boys. I saw my son trying to talk
>up an upper school girl. She was pretty and blonde, just what he
>likes, and she thought he was cute and sweet, but in a little brother
>sort of way. I think that was okay with him. He already has a
>girlfriend that goes to a different school. It was a lot of fun to
>watch from a discreet distance as he and his friends seesawed from
>Middle School cool to hyper preteen, dancing to the rhythm of the
>drumline or breaking into a snatch of song as a group. He has some
>great friends and it was informative to watch them in their element.
>
>The prepubescent and pubescent boys were the most interesting to
>watch, the 5th and 6th graders. The pheromones in the air affected
>them most of all. They were crazed and active, running around chasing
>one another. The sexual energy was turned on one another as opposed to
>the opposite sex and they didn't know how to deal with it. Most of
>them had a glaze of sweat on their faces, their hair was disheveled
>from running and wrestling. When I caught their eye from time to time
>I saw a disconnected joy on their faces, like they were buzzing. More
>than once a boy would catch my boy smile, stop, stare at me in wonder
>for a moment and then smile back and say, 'Hey' before he ran off. It
>was if they had to clear their heads to focus directly. They were
>stoned on pheromones and they didn't know it. It was hilarious to see,
>especially knowing that they're out of control and don't know why.
>They panted and yelled to one another in their high pitched, excited
>voices. The real action was in the line to the concession stand.
>That's where they all jumble together, jostling one another, me and
>other patrons in line. I was with my kid and some of his buds. They
>were all crowded around me and they were talking about other kids.
>"Hey, there's JT. JT!" "Sara is really nice, but her sister is stuck
>up." My son's friends talked me up too, much to the embarrassment of
>my son. When I bought them all a snack I got to be cool to him too. By
>that time the pheromones were getting to me too and I really began to
>consider what was going on around me. The boys my son's age are super
>attractive and relatively safe, so they got a lot of hugs from older
>girls. The older girls stayed away from the older boys unless they
>were very close friends (in which case there was a lot of hugging). So
>my kid got some hugs. He's good at that because he has an older sister
>and he's always hugging her friends. It was then that I realized that
>this is how these young people had safe sexual encounters.
>
>Which brought me back to the 5th and 6th graders. Not having an outlet
>they were taking out sexual aggression on each other. Wrestling,
>jostling, touching, there was a lot of physical contact. It was
>non-sexual, but there was a lot of it. And then I noticed how
>frequently this age group adjusted themselves. It was a totally
>unconscious action, but I saw it over and over. I guess you have to
>know what to look for to see it. This time of year, before it gets too
>cold, is perfect for some of the most interesting boywatching of all.
>Support your local team!
>
>My son took a long time to calm down when we got home. In fact, he
>said he 'needed' to wrassle (what he calls beating the crap out of
>each other). It worked and he crashed hard in front of the TV where he
>is now sound asleep. I would be interested to know if anyone else has
>noticed this phenomenon.
>
>Doc
>NP-f31
What a great account of your evening at the game, Doc! Yeah, I
remember attending high school football games when I was in 5th
through 7th grades as my brother always got free tickets for being
part of the team. He always gave me enough to have at least a few of
my friends along. Your story brought back some memories for me - seems
that at least somethings haven't really changed - at least in as much
as how kids of different cliques interact. It's strange, in a way that
after 30 some odd years since I was that age, middle schoolers still
try to hang a bit close to the older "cool" kids and so forth. And
yeah, I remember the sexual energy that seemed to build up after a
night at a game. (Of course, in my case, it always led to the real
thing! lol...)
I really should go to a high school game again one of these days.
Chad (NP-b24)
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