On 21 Aug 2008 22:25:02 -0500, +Grant <+Grant@grant.grant> wrote:
>In article <v5nra4hcjmpg3fqbcsuq709uku2uuifhgt@4ax.com>, NP-f31
><dudewiththe(REMOVE)hair@hushmail.com> wrote:
>
>> On Thu, 21 Aug 2008 22:00:08 +0200 (CEST), Nomen Nescio
>> <nobody@dizum.com> wrote:
>>
>> >On 20-Aug-2008, NP-f31 <dudewiththe(REMOVE)hair@hushmail.com> wrote:
>> >
>> >> Hello Awake,
>> >>
>> >> I have been in contact with a boylover who has been seeking help in
>> >> connecting with a boy he knows. I helped him in making an initial
>> >> contact, but the more I hear from the BL, the more I suspect that
>> >> his
>> >> motivation may easily move beyond the altruistic to more self
>> >> indulgent activities. The trouble is the guy I know is truly lonely.
>> >> The boy involved clearly seeks a man in his life. I have made my
>> >> position clear to my BL friend that the boys needs must always come
>> >> first. I fear in his desperation the guy may push too hard, and to
>> >> be
>> >> honest he's already a bit of a target in the town where he lives.
>> >>
>> >> Do you have any suggestions on how I might reinforce the message
>> >> that
>> >> the boy should come first, that self preservation should also come
>> >> first, and how he might find a way to fit his love for boys together
>> >> with a boy who needs him without endangering anyone and meeting
>> >> everyone's needs?
>> >>
>> >> Thank you for your help in advance.
>> >>
>> >> Doc
>> >> NP-f31
>> >
>> >Pathetic. No other word for it. Just pathetic.
>> >
>>
>> Can YOU help?
>
>
>I don't know who hes calling pathetic, you, awake, or the guy with the
>problem. Or both? I think hes really calling himself that. LOL
Hey Grant,
>I am surprised you asked Awake. I think hes a little (to put it
>politely) too strong for that kind of help. LOL
Well, he thinks in a completely different way from me. I was looking
for a fresh perspective on a situation I've faced before. I don't know
what you mean by 'too strong', but Awake does seem to be hanging
around The Fort and therefore should be a considered a member, so I
thought I'd venture asking for help. Yeah, I know we've knocked heads
before, but I've got a different perspective and approach now.
>I would like to help but sorry I don't have any ideas.
Thanks buddy. As it turns out I got some excellent help from an old
friend.
>Sorry I haven't had time to be involved as much as I want to. School
>things coming up.
First things first! You'll be here when you are needed, there is no
question about that.
Love,
Doc
NP-f31
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