On Apr 3, 3:07?am, 4s00th <4s0...@thetruth.com> wrote:
> I know that we spend far too much time arguing with bigots and trolls,
> but these people provide a quandary -- on the one hand, their raving
> lunacy rarely deserves the dignity of a response, but on the other
> hand, bigotry and prejudice must be challenged lest someone get the
> idea that it's okay or that we condone what the bigots do and say. Men
> of conscience must always be willing to speak out against wrong; no
> one should play the role of "good German -- just following orders."
>
> But that does take time away from our genuine purpose -- to provide
> support for each other.
We want to support you too! We'll pay for
your cage in prison.
At alt.support.boy-lovers, we don't pretend
> that it's okay for an adult to get sexually involved with a minor --
> at the least, it's against the law in most places,
But you think it's acceptable.....
and at the most,
> it's potentially harmful to someone you're supposed to love. But that
> doesn't mean that the feelings we have, the sexual desires we have are
> wrong. Feelings and desires are not right or wrong, they just are.
>
> The truth of the matter is that everyone has had feelings that have
> made them want to do things that would break the law or harm others.
> Are they evil because someone pisses them off, and they want to smack
> the fool out of whoever it was? If it did, then I guess everyone would
> be evil. You cannot judge a man on things that he feels, because no
> one has any control over those feelings and emotions and desires. We
> can only judge a man on how he chooses to behave, whether he gives in
> to the temptation to do wrong, or whether he resists.
>
> Now, being able to resist temptation has several components, the first
> of which is being honest with yourself. You have to recognize your
> feelings, you have to acknowledge and accept them as part of you, and
> you have to understand how acting on them can harm others. Let's face
> it, we lie to ourselves all the time. What mother doesn't believe her
> little Billy to be special? Who hasn't done something nice for someone
> because it made us feel good, but claimed we did it out of
> selflessness or love or altruism? But these are all self-deceptions,
> and self deception, as Robert Heinlein wrote, is the root of all evil.
> Don't believe the bull. Make yourself look at what you want to do
> honestly and discover the real reason you want to do it -- then, and
> only then, you can decide whether you should or not.
>
> We've learned that there are boys who are interested in sex, some of
> whom are interested in having sex with adult partners. But we must
> also recognize that there are boys who would be willing to have sex
> with us in order to keep getting love and attention. The truth is that
> we should be giving them love and attention because that's what they
> deserve, and it's what we want to do -- not because we expect them to
> pay for it with their bodies. If you really love someone, then
> everything you do for them should be done without expectation of any
> kind of recompense -- in short, you give what you give with no strings
> attached.
>
> So, knowing that both of these "boys" are out there, how can we tell
> the difference? More importantly, can we trust ourselves to make the
> appropriate judgment? Let's face it, too many people hear exactly what
> they want to hear despite what is actually said. Be honest. Can you
> trust yourself to know the difference? And if you're waffling here,
> look at the potential consequences if you're wrong: are you willing to
> risk destroying a beautiful relationship and possibly doing harm to
> someone you love? If I have to make a mistake, I'll take a chance on
> making the mistake that can do the least amount of harm.
>
> And that's what we are about here at alt.support.boy-lovers. It's not
> so hard to understand, but sometimes we forget that we deserve the
> same considerations that everybody else does. It's much easier to give
> into all the lies and hysteria told about pedophiles and to end up
> hating yourself. But it doesn't have to be like that. We can stand up
> for each other. We can help each other realize that we have every
> right to our own feelings, and that those feelings don't make us bad
> people or evil. And we can help each other be totally honest with
> ourselves so that we don't fall for the little lies that can lead to
> harming others. And, finally, we can help each other achieve the goal
> of living without harming those that we love the most.
>
> Please join in. Help us, Help me, Help yourself. Help and get help.
Give us your correct name, address and phone # and we'll "help" you,
pedophile
"I am a pedophile -- someone who is sexually attracted to children; I
won't quibble about pre-adolescent or post-adolescent because I
like
them all. That does not make me a threat to children"--humiliated
pedophile 4s00th
"Yes, I've thought about giving little boys blow jobs, and the
fantasies have been very thrilling and exciting to me"--humiliated
pedophile 4s00th
http://groups.google.com/group/alt.support.boy-lovers/msg/d768e45a1077ee84?&hl=en
"I have on occasion been known to humiliate myself -- but then, I'm
one
of the few people with sufficient intelligence to humiliate me"
--humiliated pedophile 4s00th
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http://groups.google.com/group/alt.support.boy-lovers/msg/1139306e6ea99ff3?&hl=en
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