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From: Doc NP-f31
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Subject: Re: [AFP] Does anyone remember?
Date: Sun, 23 Jun 2013 21:59:33 -0400
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On Sun, 23 Jun 2013 15:38:41 GMT, nesScitur@husShmail.com (Ronin)
wrote:
>On Sun, 23 Jun 2013 08:03:59 -0400, Doc NP-f31 wrote:
>
>> On Sun, 23 Jun 2013 09:54:19 GMT, nesScitur@husShmail.com (Ronin)
>> wrote:
>
>>> On Sat, 22 Jun 2013 22:30:28 -0400, Doc NP-f31 wrote:
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>>>> On Sun, 23 Jun 2013 02:08:11 GMT, nesScitur@husShmail.com (Ronin)
>>>> wrote:
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>>>>> On Sat, 22 Jun 2013 16:01:55 -0400, Doc NP-f31 wrote:
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>>>>> <snip>
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>>>> <snip>
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>>> <snip>
>
>>> Ronin
>
>> Hey Ronin,
>
>> Two things happened with Spencer's saga that made a huge difference.
>
>> 1) Spencer Dad realized how badly his son needed him. And they bonded
>> as never before.
>
>> 2) Other boys saw us helping Spencer, or trying to help, in our
>> swirling, unfocused way, and emerged seeking help. Do you remember
>> who?
>
>If there were others around that time, they are overshadowed by MTB ...
>
>> For the hole in your jaw:
>
>> I had the honor of being able to correspond with Spencer during his
>> brief visit to The Fort and for awhile afterward. I also corresponded
>> with Spencer Dad. Spencer was aware that his blunder was one of not
>> taking Ricky's feelings into proper consideration. And he 'wanted'
>> things to be a certain way so badly that he ignored the signs that
>> should have warned him off. Spencer's later troubles were a result of
>> a divorce that was already underway and an ugly custody battle that
>> Spencer Dad was going to lose no matter how perfect he was.
>
>> You did your best. You were not the only one urging caution where
>> Ricky's feelings were concerned. We all did our best, and Spencer
>> acknowledged that he was being selfish in how he handled the event.
>
>One's best is all one can do; but a less pretentious best, speaking
>*forcefully* to the risk of catastrophic loss, might have persuaded
>Spencer to at least patience, if not forebearance: true selfishness
>is often, in practice, indistinguishable from altruism.
>
>> The irony: if Spencer were 13 today, it would have happened
>> differently. In the age of Facebook and texting, a teen's sexuality is
>> not the potential scourge it once was. Schools enforce tolerance rules
>> and kids are much more open-minded than they were ten years ago.
>
>> Chin up. There are others to help.
>
>Indeed; but there was only one Spencer, as there was only one MTB.
>
>> Love,
>> Doc
>> NP-f31
>
>
>Ronin
Right you are, my friend. MTB wrote to me on July 8th as the Spencer
adventures were in full swing. He wrote a shy little introductory
letter that I shall post on the 10th Anniversary of our first meeting.
Oh, and there was one other good thing that came out of Spencer's
experience. You and I began talking and became great friends and for
that I am ever in Spencer's debt.
Did I ever tell you about the *rumors* surrounding Spencer some three
years after his eventual silence? If not, remind me and I'll tell you
offline.
Much love,
Doc
NP-f31
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