Doc NP-f31 wrote in news:7sif77lslgvps3s08vpjfpg3vh1uep0610@4ax.com:
> It should never happen that we lose a boy we love. We are grown men
> and should be buried by the boys we have loved, not have to bury them.
> But accidents happen and people die. Sometimes the people who die were
> extremely close, sometimes they are boys.
>
> Please keep Bobber, a long time Fort member, in your prayers (if you
> do that) or your thoughts if you don't. He recently found out that his
> sister and her son were killed in a plane crash in a foreign country.
> It just so happens that this particular nephew was pretty much raised
> by Bobber from the age of 8 until a few years ago. He was 18 when he
> died. It is a sad ending to a sad story that had a great middle part.
>
> Life is so precious and fleeting. And you never know if you're saying
> goodbye to someone you love forever. We all know the pain of loss.
> Never take the ones you love for granted.
>
> Here's to Bobber... I got your back, my brother. Look to your heart.
> There is so much love there, even though it is breaking. You have
> three reasons to be strong right now. Find that resilient place deep
> inside you and make the memory of your little Dude a burning mission
> to take care of the business at hand.
>
> All my love and more tomorrow,
>
> Doc
> NP-f31
>
> PS- Bone sends his love. He and I shed a few tears together this
> evening. He asked if you knew that Dude was his first boyfriend?
> He told me that Dude wasn't gay but was such a good friend that he
> agreed to be Bone's boyfriend when they were 12. I had forgotten that.
>
This is sad news, and my heart goes out to Bobber and family.
I've never lost a yf in this fashion; most have simply grown up and moved
on. I couldn't imaging having to bury one of them...
Bobber, you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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