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From: Z NP-f6 <z@ak.com>
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Subject: Re: Boys in their Element(repost)
Date: Tue, 24 Aug 2010 17:16:06 +0100
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On Sun, 22 Aug 2010 10:30:47 -0400, NP-f31 wrote:
(snip)
>
>What I've learned is my kid IS paying attention, and not just when I
>tell him 'this is something you need to remember'. He is modelling
>himself after me. That is what Dads are for. That is what boylovers
>should aspire to be. For all the beauty of a boy and all the
>enchantment he can bring to your life, what is important is what YOU
>can mean for HIM. Even when you have less access to a boy, like with
>me and T-Bone or Mac, the time you spend with them talking and doing
>things has an accumulative effect. Even if you're just cutting up and
>having fun, they ARE watching and what you do for them has a lifelong
>effect. I pray that every boylover who is brave and lucky enough to
>take on a loved boy remembers that whether he tries purposefully or
>not, he IS having a permanent impact on the boy he loves. By loving
>your boy unselfishly, you guarantee that your legacy will be a
>positive one.
>
>Love,
>
>Doc
>
>PS-Sorry Z if that last paragraph came off a bit preachy. I know you
>get it, but you're not the only one who will read this. Mea culpa.
Not at all preachy, Doc! Look around and everywhere people are fouling
up kids by sending them the wrong messages.
Given my circumstances and character I know that I will never be able
to bring up a kid but I try with all the kids I meet to remember that,
even with the most casual meetings, they are watching and learning!
It's easier for part-time people like me than for committed people
like you which is why I respect what you do so much.
On a more mundane note, don't let that youngest boy of yours get
swollen-headed.
Love from Z
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