In article <e8b2761p866ebpis148i9e68occ93qsspt@4ax.com>, NP-f31 wrote:
> On Sat, 21 Aug 2010 21:40:41 +0100, Z NP-f6 <z@ak.com> wrote:
>
> >On Sun, 25 Jul 2010 19:31:18 -0400, NP-f31 wrote:
> >
> >>Last weekend my youngest son had a visit from his best friends and
> >>their cousin. Their Mom and my son's Mom have been friends for many
> >>years. Several years ago the family moved to a neighboring state and
> >>nowadays we only get together once a year. The best friends are
> >>comprised of three brothers 15, 13 and 7. My son and the 13 year old
> >>were born a month apart and have played together since they were
> >>crawling. It has been a pleasure to see these kids grow up over the
> >>years. More recently their growth always amazes me because so much can
> >>change in a year. This year by the time I got to see them the boys,
> >>all five of them, had been together for three days. The mix was
> >>fascinating, three thirteen year olds, a barely fifteen year old and
> >>the baby brother, now a second grader were a humorous and sexy bunch.
> >>We have a new leather sofa and as the boys came upstairs after having
> >>just awoken (this was a Saturday morning) they collapsed together on
> >>the couch on one big sleepy pile.
> >>
> >>The sight was captivating to me. They were laying on top of one
> >>another with arms and legs intertwined in various ways, faces very
> >>close. There was much scrotum scratching as you might expect for early
> >>in the morning. All but one of the teens had very long hair, which was
> >>disshelved and careless. I noticed one of the boys had his hand on my
> >>son's crotch, neither seemed to care or notice. The youngster, the
> >>little brother doted on by all, was wriggling and writhing on top of
> >>each of them in turn. They all hugged, tickled and showered him with
> >>very genuine affection. Added in to the mix was my son's dog (who
> >>thinks the sofa is his). Both my wife and my son later told me that
> >>the whole visit had been this way, a lovefest. It struck me that these
> >>younger teens had no hangups about their proximity to one another,
> >>even though the experience clearly had sexual overtones. There were
> >>frequent crotch adjustments by each of the boys. And one of the boys
> >>clearly had a hardon. The youngest had recently been in his lap. It
> >>stayed like this for a long time. They got up to have breakfast and
> >>when finished, put away their dishes and returned to their pileup.
> >>
> >>This set me pondering during the last week. At what point do boys
> >>begin to feel sexual paranoia? It has been my experience that not all
> >>boys can be this free and unconcerned about their bodies around others
> >>in a potentially sexually charged situation. This is the case in the
> >>Stevie stories that Grant is sharing too, although how many boys would
> >>remain calm when their crotch is grabbed? Is the real answer that boys
> >>who feel comfortable in each other's presence don't even worry about
> >>things like their sexuality? When I think of my son's sexuality I tend
> >>to see it in terms of his attraction to girls. To see him last week in
> >>a pile of boys with two days of built up pheromones swirling around
> >>them, I was surprised. Yes, I was jealous too because his friends are
> >>really cute! But most of all I was happy for him because of the clear
> >>intimacy he has with his friends and the fact that he was comfortable
> >>with it. I feel certain that merriment must have ensued at some point
> >>during the week because they also slept together in a big pile on the
> >>living room floor. It was also cool to see my kid be the center of
> >>attention for much of the time. He inspires lustful thoughts in a lot
> >>of people who meet him, I have no doubt; and I have heard how the
> >>other Mom's talk about him. I hate it that mothers can talk about each
> >>other's boys in sexual terms and fathers can't (unless they have
> >>friends like you guys in The Fort ;).
> >>
> >>I would be interested to see what others think. I am spending the week
> >>with two of my loved boys. Who also have a post to share. We will
> >>check back in as able and reply.
> >>
> >>Stay Safe,
> >>
> >>Doc
> >>NP-f31
> >
> >
> >Hello, dear Doc!
> >
> >How happy I am for these boys who are so comfortable with themselves
> >and for you who share their world and for everyone here with whom you
> >have eloquently and movingly shared your thoughts.
> >
> >yours Z
>
> Hey Zackie!
>
> Thanks for the kind words. My youngest son is an amazing young man. He
> was raised from birth by a self aware boylover. He is quite different
> from my oldest son, though there are many similarities. What is
> fascinating to me is to hear what others have to say about him. I
> think it's pretty normal for other parents to comment on how well
> behaved your kid is when they've spent some time with him. My kid is
> well behaved and very polite, but when you begin to hear comments
> about his extraordinary character and his a personal charm you start
> to sit up and take notice.When his friends parents go on and on about
> your kid, you begin to realize how special he is.
>
> This past week he was with my parents in the town where I grew up. He
> loves my Dad and has basically been hanging out with him when his Mom
> is out running around. My Dad was 'babysitting' him the other night
> and took him out to dinner with a few of his guy friends. So my 13
> year old is having dinner with a table full of old guys. He basically
> held court with these fellas. My son is extremely attractive and that
> is enough to cause people to pay attention to him. But these old guys
> were talking politics, flirting with the waitress, making double
> entendres and generally misbehaving (because their wives weren't
> there). And my son held his own. He was running with the big dogs!
> These guys are men I grew up knowing; all of them pillars of the
> community, friends of former Presidents and that. He had them
> enthralled! So much so that they invited him to their 'Coffee Group'
> to meet the whole gang. He went with my Dad yesterday morning and had
> a blast. Since then, I have been receiving reports and two phone calls
> about what an outstanding young man my wife and I are raising. It
> makes me feel good, especially when they tell me he looks like I did
> at that age or that he reminds them so much of me. I think that's
> great, but I wish I could get him to do his homework without a
> struggle. LOL!
>
> What I've learned is my kid IS paying attention, and not just when I
> tell him 'this is something you need to remember'. He is modelling
> himself after me. That is what Dads are for. That is what boylovers
> should aspire to be. For all the beauty of a boy and all the
> enchantment he can bring to your life, what is important is what YOU
> can mean for HIM. Even when you have less access to a boy, like with
> me and T-Bone or Mac, the time you spend with them talking and doing
> things has an accumulative effect. Even if you're just cutting up and
> having fun, they ARE watching and what you do for them has a lifelong
> effect. I pray that every boylover who is brave and lucky enough to
> take on a loved boy remembers that whether he tries purposefully or
> not, he IS having a permanent impact on the boy he loves. By loving
> your boy unselfishly, you guarantee that your legacy will be a
> positive one.
>
> Love,
>
> Doc
>
> PS-Sorry Z if that last paragraph came off a bit preachy. I know you
> get it, but you're not the only one who will read this. Mea culpa.
Somebody else reads your posts? Really? LOL
I think I might be one. Let me check. Yes, I am!
Good work and good post. Can we have some more?
--
Grant
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