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From: NP-f31
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Subject: Re: Boys in their Element(repost)
Date: Sun, 22 Aug 2010 10:30:47 -0400
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On Sat, 21 Aug 2010 21:40:41 +0100, Z NP-f6 <z@ak.com> wrote:
>On Sun, 25 Jul 2010 19:31:18 -0400, NP-f31 wrote:
>
>>Last weekend my youngest son had a visit from his best friends and
>>their cousin. Their Mom and my son's Mom have been friends for many
>>years. Several years ago the family moved to a neighboring state and
>>nowadays we only get together once a year. The best friends are
>>comprised of three brothers 15, 13 and 7. My son and the 13 year old
>>were born a month apart and have played together since they were
>>crawling. It has been a pleasure to see these kids grow up over the
>>years. More recently their growth always amazes me because so much can
>>change in a year. This year by the time I got to see them the boys,
>>all five of them, had been together for three days. The mix was
>>fascinating, three thirteen year olds, a barely fifteen year old and
>>the baby brother, now a second grader were a humorous and sexy bunch.
>>We have a new leather sofa and as the boys came upstairs after having
>>just awoken (this was a Saturday morning) they collapsed together on
>>the couch on one big sleepy pile.
>>
>>The sight was captivating to me. They were laying on top of one
>>another with arms and legs intertwined in various ways, faces very
>>close. There was much scrotum scratching as you might expect for early
>>in the morning. All but one of the teens had very long hair, which was
>>disshelved and careless. I noticed one of the boys had his hand on my
>>son's crotch, neither seemed to care or notice. The youngster, the
>>little brother doted on by all, was wriggling and writhing on top of
>>each of them in turn. They all hugged, tickled and showered him with
>>very genuine affection. Added in to the mix was my son's dog (who
>>thinks the sofa is his). Both my wife and my son later told me that
>>the whole visit had been this way, a lovefest. It struck me that these
>>younger teens had no hangups about their proximity to one another,
>>even though the experience clearly had sexual overtones. There were
>>frequent crotch adjustments by each of the boys. And one of the boys
>>clearly had a hardon. The youngest had recently been in his lap. It
>>stayed like this for a long time. They got up to have breakfast and
>>when finished, put away their dishes and returned to their pileup.
>>
>>This set me pondering during the last week. At what point do boys
>>begin to feel sexual paranoia? It has been my experience that not all
>>boys can be this free and unconcerned about their bodies around others
>>in a potentially sexually charged situation. This is the case in the
>>Stevie stories that Grant is sharing too, although how many boys would
>>remain calm when their crotch is grabbed? Is the real answer that boys
>>who feel comfortable in each other's presence don't even worry about
>>things like their sexuality? When I think of my son's sexuality I tend
>>to see it in terms of his attraction to girls. To see him last week in
>>a pile of boys with two days of built up pheromones swirling around
>>them, I was surprised. Yes, I was jealous too because his friends are
>>really cute! But most of all I was happy for him because of the clear
>>intimacy he has with his friends and the fact that he was comfortable
>>with it. I feel certain that merriment must have ensued at some point
>>during the week because they also slept together in a big pile on the
>>living room floor. It was also cool to see my kid be the center of
>>attention for much of the time. He inspires lustful thoughts in a lot
>>of people who meet him, I have no doubt; and I have heard how the
>>other Mom's talk about him. I hate it that mothers can talk about each
>>other's boys in sexual terms and fathers can't (unless they have
>>friends like you guys in The Fort ;).
>>
>>I would be interested to see what others think. I am spending the week
>>with two of my loved boys. Who also have a post to share. We will
>>check back in as able and reply.
>>
>>Stay Safe,
>>
>>Doc
>>NP-f31
>
>
>Hello, dear Doc!
>
>How happy I am for these boys who are so comfortable with themselves
>and for you who share their world and for everyone here with whom you
>have eloquently and movingly shared your thoughts.
>
>yours Z
Hey Zackie!
Thanks for the kind words. My youngest son is an amazing young man. He
was raised from birth by a self aware boylover. He is quite different
from my oldest son, though there are many similarities. What is
fascinating to me is to hear what others have to say about him. I
think it's pretty normal for other parents to comment on how well
behaved your kid is when they've spent some time with him. My kid is
well behaved and very polite, but when you begin to hear comments
about his extraordinary character and his a personal charm you start
to sit up and take notice.When his friends parents go on and on about
your kid, you begin to realize how special he is.
This past week he was with my parents in the town where I grew up. He
loves my Dad and has basically been hanging out with him when his Mom
is out running around. My Dad was 'babysitting' him the other night
and took him out to dinner with a few of his guy friends. So my 13
year old is having dinner with a table full of old guys. He basically
held court with these fellas. My son is extremely attractive and that
is enough to cause people to pay attention to him. But these old guys
were talking politics, flirting with the waitress, making double
entendres and generally misbehaving (because their wives weren't
there). And my son held his own. He was running with the big dogs!
These guys are men I grew up knowing; all of them pillars of the
community, friends of former Presidents and that. He had them
enthralled! So much so that they invited him to their 'Coffee Group'
to meet the whole gang. He went with my Dad yesterday morning and had
a blast. Since then, I have been receiving reports and two phone calls
about what an outstanding young man my wife and I are raising. It
makes me feel good, especially when they tell me he looks like I did
at that age or that he reminds them so much of me. I think that's
great, but I wish I could get him to do his homework without a
struggle. LOL!
What I've learned is my kid IS paying attention, and not just when I
tell him 'this is something you need to remember'. He is modelling
himself after me. That is what Dads are for. That is what boylovers
should aspire to be. For all the beauty of a boy and all the
enchantment he can bring to your life, what is important is what YOU
can mean for HIM. Even when you have less access to a boy, like with
me and T-Bone or Mac, the time you spend with them talking and doing
things has an accumulative effect. Even if you're just cutting up and
having fun, they ARE watching and what you do for them has a lifelong
effect. I pray that every boylover who is brave and lucky enough to
take on a loved boy remembers that whether he tries purposefully or
not, he IS having a permanent impact on the boy he loves. By loving
your boy unselfishly, you guarantee that your legacy will be a
positive one.
Love,
Doc
PS-Sorry Z if that last paragraph came off a bit preachy. I know you
get it, but you're not the only one who will read this. Mea culpa.
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