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From: NP-f31
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Subject: Interesting Topic for conversation - Your opinions sought
Date: Fri, 04 Jun 2010 21:13:46 -0400
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A BL friend wrote to me the other day about a date he recently had
with a woman who is a nurse. She worked in palliative care and was
talking about the death of one of her patients that had just occurred.
As it turns out this patient had been a 12 year old terminally ill
boy. The date had imbibed a few drinks and her tongue was loosened.
She began to explain to my friend that she had granted the dying wish
of this boy. He had, over a series of days, told her that the one
thing he didn't want to do was die a virgin and that she was his only
hope. She is an attractive woman, by the way. One day not long before
he died she was assisting him in the shower and he implored her to
touch him. She said she felt sorry for him, and she ended up making
love to the boy and added that it was an enjoyable experience for the
both of them. This really got the attention of my BL friend, it
intrigued him to say the least. He told her that he wasn't judging her
and that what she did was an unselfish act. Armed with that knowledge
she admitted to my friend that this wasn't the first terminally ill
adolescent she'd sent to heaven a man. Then she told him that she knew
of many hospice nurses who had done the same thing. How many? She
didn't say. This absolutely blew my friend's mind. He wondered what my
feelings were on the subject and I told him. I'll share them with you
too and I hope you'll share your feelings on the subject as well.
Here is what I think:
I think that nurses who have sex with terminally ill boys are
fulfilling their own fantasies, not some boy's dying wish. Put the
shoe on the other foot, if a male nurse had been asked the same
question by a terminally ill 12 year old girl, the male nurse would
be seen as a rapist, especially by the drunken nurse. She
wanted those 12 year old boys for the same reason we, as BLs, would.
She has convinced herself that she was fulfilling his final wish. What
she really did was seduce and rape him. That's how it would be seen if
we did it. I won't allow her to live in a double standard world. What
if the boy had been gay? Would she have sought out a male nurse to
service him? No, she was living out her fantasies and she's justified
it in her mind because the kids were dying. What if either boy had
made a miraculous recovery? What would she be then? A statutory
rapist. Just because the boy dies doesn't make it okay. If you and I,
as boylovers, have to go to jail for making love to a boy who wants us
to, then she has to also. Otherwise, when is rape not a rape? When a
woman does it? Tell that to Mary Kay Laterno. If the boy is dying?
Well, that would lead to a rash of rape-murders, wouldn't it?
I think this scenario shows the whole ingrained bias against man/boy
relationships. I guarantee you if it were the other way around, man
and girl, she would be horrified and so would her hospice boy rapist
friends.
Your thoughts solicited...
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